Remembering Dad

Today marks the 21st anniversary of my Dad's passing. I can't believe it's been 21 years...so much time has passed and it's sad how much of our lives he has missed. I do believe he watches over us and guides us and smiles when he knows we're happy. He would so enjoy his grandkids, but grandma makes up with enough love and spoiling for both of them! Miss you Dad! Hope you're resting in peace and having a good ole time til we can meet again!

Me and my father (June, 1984).
He always loved a party and he loved to dance!

My father with Dan (1988).
Unfortunately, Dan lost both his grandfathers before he was three years old so he never really knew either of them.

One Year Later

Yes, today is the one-year anniversary of Ed's diagnosis. It was exactly one year ago that we sat with Dr. Berkman and he informed us that, even without a biopsy, he knew it was cancer. Of course, Ed and I had our suspicions before that, but it was the day that the words were spoken and it was confirmed. I still remember that day so clearly. I tried to be strong for Ed and not show my emotions. He just sat there matter-of-fact, "Yup, I knew it!" The enormity and uncertainty of it. What a scary and sad day that was.

But the bright spot is that 1 year later, Ed is still here. At the time, we never thought about "one-year later". So tonight we celebrate and look back on how thankful we are that we had this year and that we are thankful for those like Dr. Bowers and his team that have helped us achieve this milestone.

Life is good... And here's to hoping we're able to celebrate again next year!